With Father's Day approaching, we'd like to know what nobody told you about being a dad.

Send your response, in 100 words or less, to jvogelsong@ydr.com or to the York Daily Record/Sunday News c/o Jennifer Vogelsong, 1891 Loucks Road, York19408-9708. Include your name, age, the municipality where you live and a daytime phone number. Please also include the name(s) and age(s) of your children. Deadline is May 19.